A thought:
If one side has the desire to do something, the power to do something, and does something… OK, let’s talk about that.
If the other side has the desire to do the same thing and given the potential to do that same thing would do that same thing, yet, despite attempts has not yet but are fully committed to it… Can we also talk about that?
I mean, is it OK to talk about both? Can we, in fairness, talk about the one and ignore the other as if it doesn’t exist and only one side is “bad” and the other “good?
Or, can both things be bad, and can we be sure to mention both when we talk about it, and can we condemn the whole lot of it?