I will not be terrified. Terrified is what they want. I refuse to give them what they want.

I will not be hopeless. Hopeless is what they want. I refuse to give them what they want.

I will turn anger into action. I will turn horror into hope. For any plot against us, I’ll plan.


“Was Anyone Going to Say Anything?”

I agree 100% with Stancil here — it is so completely obvious what Trump and the Republicans are trying to do (they are not hiding it!) and it’s maddening to watch the media and Democratic politicians treat this like any other political situation: “that this is all about policy differences”. They are trying to destroy American democracy and amass power for themselves and the oligarchs that support them — that’s what autocracies are for and it’s why Trump and Republicans want one.

Every word and link is important.

Donny Dictator wants what Putin has.


As I’ve said before, the first rule of using a computer is to never trust a computer with anything you want to outlive you. Or even outlive the next 10 years.


Who Were the Nazis?

Very. Much. This.


I believe part of my duties as a cishet husband and father is to always have a hair tie or two close at hand for the long haired women in my life.


Gosh, today has been a really good day so far.


I’m pretty sure I’m ready for a cocktail. How about you?


Being an ally.

You know, I’m pretty sure being an ally does not mean what so many seem to think it means. It’s the exact same thing as if we were two sovereign nations. So many people hear the world “ally” and then do, well, what has become natural and culturally acceptable for them to do… They take over. They pretend the fight is their fight too. They don’t stop to ask what is really needed and think they know the goals and objectives and strategy and they just… Take over.

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Just woke up. Read more of all the things.

Still sad.


Personally, I’m just sad about the whole thing. All of it.